FRIENDS INFLUENCE US??? OH YES....THEY DO!!! :)
Hello!! Long since we met??? Well am back on track!!!
Thanks to a buddy of mine I thought of writing something for
my blog, so here is a big thank you to RIA RAICHAUDHURI!!!
Well last week I was lying on my bed and thinking about what
changed me from who I was to who I am now and I realized my friends are the
ones and also realized that the
teenagers and the youth get influenced mainly by their friends. So if I take my
example I was not a very good girl, well I am now! The one who showed me the light and helped me
to the right path is HAJER. Now she will never ever agree to this, she will
tell me that it isn't her and stuff, but she is the reason I am who I am now!!!
When I talk about influencing it could be bad as well as
good. We all have friends who we are close to or maybe just a friend or for
namesake a friend!! We really should be careful with whom we become close to
because unintentionally without our knowledge they will influence us in many
ways. Some girls and guys try to eat and sit the way other friends in their
group do and others who cut of their limits might even get into drugs and alcohol.
It is natural for a boy or a girl to get influenced by his or her friends, because
they are the ones they roam around and have most of their teen life and college
life spent around with. So we should be a bit selective when it comes to
friends. Now once we are into a bad group of friends we might not realize the
fact that we are into no good and we feel what we are doing now is right, but
later when we are to live a life and start earning and stuff we will surely
have the hangover of this influence and can never have a good life. Now when I mean
to say we move away from the bad group doesn't mean we hate them, we should at
the same time try to make them see the difference between what is good and what
is bad.
I am one of the luckiest girls who have a good bunch of
friends around me!! I have friends like Hajer who would show me what is write
and help me learn more about my religion and Rasha to make me laugh always and
even though she is so immature knows what her limit is and so told me too that
have fun, but in your limits and last but not the least My POOH FAMILY who taught
me some beautiful lessons like:
1.
BE POSITIVE
2.
BE YOURSELF
3.
BE HAPPY
4.
SMILE ALWAYS
5.
DON’T BOTHER IF PEOPLE MAKE
FUN OF YOU
6.
LOVE YOUR FAMILY AND
FRIENDS
7.
HAVE FAITH IN GOD
8.
WHAT SO EVER HAPPENS BE
STRONG
9.
ETC….ETC…ETC….
An important lesson out of all which
two of my friend from my “pooh family” taught was:
1.
Don’t get offended if
people are going to correct you, take it as an advice (THANK YOU RIA AND SHIFA)
We may not notice, but we always tend to please them rather
than being ourselves, which is literally bad for us in our future. I always
believe that having one friend whom will help us in finding the right path is
better than to have hundreds of friends who happened to choose you as their friend
only if u fit in their checklist. So before you regret just sit back and think
about what type of friends are you with!!
So that is for now!!!
Salaam, Adios…………… :)
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